So I'm a little late with Father's Day, but better late than never. I actually got to see my Dad this year on Father's Day because we were passing through Charleston on our way back to St. Louis. He is the best.
Top Ten (in no particular order):
1. He calls me by my full name, Abatha Naja Corse Boyle, or ANCB for short. Helps me remember that, yes, my parents did in fact name me after a snake.
2. He remembers memorable days...like when Billy Joe McAllister fell off the Tallahatchie Bridge (June 3rd) and The Day the Music Died (February 3rd) and sends me and my sister an email on those days to remind us.
3. He has great quotes like, "It is better to light one candle than to curse the darkness." It means when you are hot/cold/hungry/tired, do something about it instead of whining (for those of you that know me well can sense that I heard this ALOT!)
4. He taught me not to be a quitter (even though I'm sure it was hard when I wanted desperately to quit running track in 9th grade).
5. He exposed me to many places, people, and things while I was growing up and taught me to have an open mind (even when we were in Big Sur, California when I was in 7th grade and while looking up at this beautiful waterfall, I said "Why did you bring me to this dumb place for?")
6. He makes me think about stuff like turning off lights when you aren't in a room, closing doors to rooms you aren't using, and turning off the water when you go out of town so that your house doesn't get flooded.
7. He disciplined me to take a 7 minute shower (with 3 kids getting ready for school in the morning, hot water was a commodity), therefore it doesn't take me very long to get ready now.
8. He works very hard and plays hard and taught me the importance of having "recreational skills" to round out my life.
9. He enjoys life. He enjoys being with my mom. He enjoys being with his family.
10. He loves me very much.
Dad, I love you!